Avoid Being Friends With Benefits With Your Ex Boyfriend – Do Not Become His Prostitute

The only thing worst than breaking up is getting talked into being friends with benefits with your ex boyfriend. Do not let him turn you into his personal prostitute. If you think having sex is going to get him back, you better think again.

Why It Won’t Work

While it is true that women tend to bond through the act of making love, this isn’t always true with men. If you believe that the time you spend together after a breakup having sex is going to help you repair the break up, you are dead wrong. If anything you are helping him “move on”…how? While you are fulfilling his sexual needs/desires, you are helping to “tide him over” while he searches for another woman to replace you. Plus how will he ever start to miss you?

Being friends with benefits with your ex boyfriend will only make your current broken relationship worse…think about it. You will try to pull him close, and he will pull away. You will get the old “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” line as soon as you try to turn sex into a commitment. You will start to become more attached to him after every love making session, but he will only be thankful for the easy sex…that’s about it.

Do Not Let Yourself Become His Prostitute

This friends with benefit set up will start to look at lot like an arrangement between a prostitute, and a client, only instead of making any money, you will come away feeling empty after a while. You probably didn’t realize it when this all started happening, but you were really not interested in the FWB arrangement. You were subconsciously hoping this would get you back together with your ex, right?

So now you’re thinking how do I get out of this arrangement without making him mad at me? Unfortunately there isn’t really anyway to take away the goodies, and not make him angry. After all you agreed to this type of situation, right? Even if you didn’t really agree to a FWB arrangement, you didn’t stop it from happening, huh? Don’t worry there is a way to end being friends with benefits with your ex boyfriend, and get him back.

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

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  1. Hi Scott,

    Im finally over the big hill battle of getting over my ex. Im doing much better emotionally. Scott I have a question. Ive decided to move to Texas to finish nursing school. My childhood friends reside in Texas and offered support while I finish up school. I agreed. In december I plan to stay for a least a week to get the feel of Texas. Yesterday I let my ex know of my plans to move because we have a daughter. He cried on his knees holding me asking me not to leave. He said to be patient with him he plans on opening a store in January 2012 He suddenly became extremely angry as if he planned to hit me. Shocked I just looked him in the eyes in disbelief. Believe me I wasnt going to take a a** kickn.It bothered me because he never make no plans to spend with our daughter or call her. He does provide financial support and whenever I call for other support he helps out.Scott he is married now with a 6 month old son and other children prior to this which he will never admit that he have. In the past if I ever brought it up he gets very angry. I guess its his business. He seemed so depressed after I told him about us moving to Texas. He said that we’re not leaving. What does he wantfrom us?

    1. Hi,

      I wouldn’t worry about what this fucking loser thinks, says, or does…never mind what he wants.

      Go make a better life for you and your daughter. The sooner you are both away from this piece of shit, the better.

      A married man with children should be focused on his wife and children, not you.

      Although your child is his too, he never showed interest, so why the big display now?

      If he cared about anything but himself he would give you (both) his blessing and support.

      You are definitely doing the right thing for both you and your daughter.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  2. In the free plan, it says not to talk about the old relationship in the reconnection phase.. I mean, the break-up is ofc a no-brainer, but not even good fond memories from the old relationship? like “Hey, remember that time when you…” and so on?

    1. Hi,

      The whole point of reconnecting with your ex boyfriend is to start a NEW relationship.

      That is why you don’t want to bring up the past, it is gone.

      One memory can lead to another, and before you know it, you hit a bad memory.

      It is best not to play the “remember when” game.

      You have to handle this like you would if you were starting to date someone you have no history with, understand?

      One of the biggest obstacles people run into (IMHO) is they believe their past history gives them an advantage, and they try to use it to their advantage and all that does is bring up bad memories (along with the good).

      Let sleeping dogs lie, and focus on a “brand new” start.

      This is one of the BIGGEST reasons I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      The free plan to get your ex back is about using the no contact rule to start a fresh new relationship with your ex boyfriend, not pick up where you left off just before the break up occurred.

      Why?

      Because you will be right on track to break up again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

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