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The only thing worst than breaking up is getting talked into being friends with benefits with your ex boyfriend. Do not let him turn you into his personal prostitute. If you think having sex is going to get him back, you better think again.
Why It Won’t Work
While it is true that women tend to bond through the act of making love, this isn’t always true with men. If you believe that the time you spend together after a breakup having sex is going to help you repair the break up, you are dead wrong. If anything you are helping him “move on”…how? While you are fulfilling his sexual needs/desires, you are helping to “tide him over” while he searches for another woman to replace you. Plus how will he ever start to miss you?
Being friends with benefits with your ex boyfriend will only make your current relationship worse…think about it. You will try to pull him close, and he will pull away. You will get the old “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” line as soon as you try to turn sex into a commitment. You will start to become more attached to him after every love making session, but he will only be thankful for the easy sex…that’s about it.
Do Not Let Yourself Become His Prostitute
This friends with benefit set up will start to look at lot like an arrangement between a prostitute, and a client, only instead of making any money, you will come away feeling empty after a while. You probably didn’t realize it when this all started happening, but you were really not interested in the FWB arrangement. You were subconsciously hoping this would get you back together with your ex, right?
So now you’re thinking how do I get out of this arrangement without making him mad at me? Unfortunately there isn’t really anyway to take away the goodies, and not make him angry. After all you agreed to this type of situation, right? Even if you didn’t really agree to a FWB arrangement, you didn’t stop it from happening, huh? Don’t worry there is a way to end being friends with benefits with your ex boyfriend, and get him back.
Need Some Free Help Getting Out of The FWB Zone?
If you need a free step-by-step system to help you get out of the friends with benefits zone, I can help you. I run a revolutionary Blog, and Forum that takes a whole new approach to winning back your ex, and it works! I don’t care how many books you bought or read. They are all lacking the most important ingredient, personal support, which is what I am offering you.
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Until next time,
S. Williams
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I just refused to have sex with my ex because he wanted to be friends with benefits. I haven’t heard from him now in 3 weeks. I hope I am on track, and I hope he is curious about me. I have not contacted him, and I am willing to stay away because I really do love him.
Richard wrote:
Hi Richard,
Go to the top of my Blog and find the free plan.
Follow all the steps, OK?
That will definitely put you on track.
Take Care,
S.W.
Hi I need personal help. I live in Australia and my ex lives in USA. I checked up on his email on a regular basis (he gave me his password, i gave him my password too) and one day I found out he had been ‘hunting around” for prostitutes before being together with me. Being a Christian, there was no way I could accept it though he insisted he never ever got to the actual love making because they are all just fake internet ads. Eventually he dropped the bomb on me on Christmas and wanted a break up which he never told me of (he emailed the letter to my dad instead) and cut of all contact with me, mobile, email, facebook, google talk etc.
That same week, I flew to USA (it was stupid) and I lose my self respect, he hated me more and while I insisted we should wait until marriage when we were together, I give “that” to him for the first time after the break up. He did not take me back. He did not feel guilty.
Now I am back in Australia. Heartbroken. I was consistently sick (this was too much for me and I used to suffer from depression before) and lost 5 kg.
What should I do now? Can I get him back? What is my best course of action? I need help but I have no money to buy those online ebooks.
Elaine wrote:
Hi,
You can read, and follow the free plan on my Blog (the link is at the top).
Take Care,
S.W.
Hi I have already read the link but my situation is atypical. He’s not getting the sex from me anymore because we are living in different countries. So now, what should I do?
We still keep in touch via Facebook (thats the only mode of contact he says he would allow and block me off on MSN, Google Talk, email, phone). I know he reads my FB everyday, maybe even my plurk which I update everyday (many times a day).
He is not sending me any serious emails or comment but when I post photos, he would sometimes comment on it, tag me and such. Then within a couple of hours he would remove the whole message as if he’s afraid others would see it.
I went to a zoo 2 days ago and uploaded my photos. Obviously I would be home by now (who would be in a zoo for 2 days) but he sent me a message that reads “home? or still on trip”?
I have a feeling he just wanted me to reply, and maybe wanted to ask who I was with but he never asked. I probably should just ignore the message but after pondering for hours (because I know he knows I am home and using FB right there and then), I replied “back. why?”
He has never replied ever since.
My plan is to upload all the photos by today and then cut off all contact (including FB) until Valentines.
Should I send him a letter? I made a video for him (he said he wanted to see me dance and sing ever so often when we were together).
My B-day is coming up on the next 10 days. Should I just any of those events to do anything that would be to my advantage?
Elaine wrote:
If the free plan is not good enough, I can’t help you.
Good Luck!
S.W.
Hey Scott its been a week and he messaged me like the last day of the week i wasnt talking to him and asked me to come over…lol…oh how funny it was! but im doing good and hanging in there and my feelings are becoming in control and i have been fengdhui-ing my room…it feels great..i have realized i do want to be with him but i do think i need to start over
Haniya wrote:
Hi,
That is what following the free plan on my Blog is all about.
You break away from the old failed relationship and evolve past that, find yourself again as a single person, and then reconnect with your ex when you’re both ready in a new “stronger” relationship.
Keep up the good work Haniya! (Thumbs High) :-)
Stay Strong!
S.W.