By: Sandy

Sandy — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 19:21:15 +0000

I dont totally agree with these reasons. From my recentally experience, I was never to clingy, I never expected anything from him. The only thing I expected was some respect. If you tell me something and dont come through then let me know somehow you cant make it or something happen. Was this to much to ask from someone you are dating and he was the one telling me this. I never once asked him to do anything he didnt want to do. In fact I tested him one time because I wanted to know if he was truly a player, I had my friend call him up and made him think it was a wrong number and he just starting talking to this my friend by ramdom. Well he practically had her coming to his house for sex. When he never asked me to come to his house. After that my friend called him up and said she was a friend of mine and that I heard everything he said. She also told him tell him to f***off. Well later he told me that he was just playing around with her. Stupid me wanted to believe him, I actually didnt beleive him, but I thought I would give it another chance. Because everytime I have tried to break it off, he comes back and is being sweet again. I actually thought it was really funny what I did to proof a point. Men play stupid immature games. Its hilarious on the website he has a picture of himself that was taken over ten years ago. Because when I met him he look nothing like it. I actually think he thinks he is gods gift to woman. Sure I admit I got caught up in it, only because after I kissed him I actually felt some kind of connection. And I still do. The funny thing is he probley knows this. I have went back and recooped everything that has happen from the begining. I admit I persued him based on what his picture was. But when we met like I said I wasnt attracted to him. However he acted like we were dating for years. I dont understand him at all. My friend couldnt beleive it also. She thinks he has a screw loose, I am begining to think that has well. Its funny this guy continues to lie to me I think, When I first met him he was wearing a ring on his finger (Left hand) I instantly told him you are married. He took his ring off and put it on the other hand. He told me he bought this in the bahamas because he liked it. I just let it go, My gut feeling is he is married. He told me he is divorce and his ex-wife fled to mexico leaving her daughter behind, Now he has to take care of her. He insists this is not his daughter. He also tells me he is training for some kind of marathon. Well let me tell you he does not have the body of a marathon man. I just finally realize and it has clicked, This man has been lying to me about everything. I actually think he believes his own lies. Or wishes they were true. The thing is after re capturing what has taken place in the last four months. This entire dating thing is just a joke with him. He will play anyone who will fall for it. I admit I fell for it hard. But I am taking what I have learned about him and applying it to the next guy and if it happens it does I am not looking for it anylonger. I also think I wanted to beleive these things because I really wanted this to work out. But live and learn

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By: Sandy