How To Survive a Breakup

OK, I understand your life sucks at the moment because your man or woman has left you, and you want to learn how to get your ex back. Well, you have come to the right website. Right now, love is kicking your ass…hard. But, with the right information, and support, you can, and will, kick loves ass in the end, sound good?

I cannot promise you it will be easy. It won’t be. I cannot promise you, that for a small (or large) fee, I can teach you how to get your ex back in 30 days. I can’t. Why? Because before you should even attempt a reconnection, you need to evolve past the break up/failed relationship, and that takes time, a lot more time than 30 days.

Sorry for the bad news, but it is the truth. Do you want to know what else is true? You have not lost your ex forever…no matter what they may have said, or done. But, only time will tell if you will really want them back or not.

No one wants to be with someone who can not give them what they need. If you were both getting what you wanted or needed out of the old relationship, it wouldn’t have ended, right? So, now, in this moment of panic, do not try to convince yourself everything will work out if you just get back together again, it won’t.

What people are not telling you while they try to sell you books and courses is that no reunion with your ex will ever last if you go back to the same old relationship, make sense? It will later.

Getting over a broken heart hurts, and you are going crazy right now, which is expected for a little while. But. You have to listen to me. You should not make important decisions like getting your ex back while you are going crazy. Don’t do it. You will live to regret it.

So how long should you wait before making a decision about your broken relationship? Usually it takes 12 months to fully evolve past a break up, and move on from a failed relationship.

A lot of people get really freaked out when I tell them it takes 12 months. They want that quick fix “how to get your ex back in 30 days” solution that is for sale all over the internet. They are afraid that it will be too late after 12 months has past.

But will it be too late? Yup. It will be too late to resurrect that old failed relationship, and that’s the whole idea. You must bury the old failed relationship…forever.

Let me explain, many of the people that write to me for help tell me the tale of how they have been breaking up, and getting back together for months, and even years. These poor tortured couples have been in break up hell for a lot longer than 12 months. So, why not devote 12 months to healing, growing, and evolving, instead of beating a dead horse hoping it will come back to life?

Instead of spending endless days in break up hell, start your 12 month personal evolution, and get your life back. You have to become a whole person before you can effectively share yourself with anyone again, and that includes your ex.

There are essentially four stages to your personal evolution. First, you learn how get over a break up, and then you learn how to get over a broken heart. After you have gone through these two stages you will have your life back again, and you will be happy and fulfilled without your ex in your life.

Once you have your life back again you can proceed to one of the last two stages, learning how to get your ex boyfriend back, or learning how to get your ex girlfriend back, whichever applies to your unique situation.

How To Get Over A Break Up

During this phase of your personal evolution you will learn to accept, and embrace the breakup. You will accomplish this by using the no contact rule, and sending a very effective no contact message to your ex. I will explain where you can get this information for free at the end of this article, so make sure you keep on reading.

How To Get Over A Broken Heart

You will start to heal your broken heart as soon as you learn to accept the break up, which you will accomplish in the first phase. This will be a long (12 month) process, but not very painful, if you stick to the no contact rule.

The sooner you work hard at getting over the break up you will ease your broken heart, and it will begin to heal. This is why it will be very important for you to stick to the no contact rule, and not have to keep starting phase one all over again.

How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

This part of your personal evolution is totally optional, and will also work for how to get your ex husband back too. Even though it is ‘optional’, I am guessing that at this early point of your break up that you are adamant about getting back together with him, and that is normal. The process of getting him back is also explained in detail in the free plan that I will tell you about in a minute.

How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

This phase will also teach you how to get your ex wife back. After all, she started out as a girlfriend, didn’t she? The differences between getting a man back, or getting a woman back are very minimal. But, if you want very detailed information I can recommend a book to you that you can buy at your discretion, if you feel you need it.

Free Plan To Get Your Ex Back

So, where can you find this plan I was talking about above? The free breakup survival plan can be found by clicking on this link: breakup survival plan, and signing up for my free newsletter. The very first email (after you confirm your email subscription) will have the link to the free plan on it. I will also share more free tips and advice with you in the emails that follow.

The best part is that I also offer you a free break up support forum, as part of your personal evolution. You must follow the free plan, and forum guidelines in-order to become (and remain) a member. But, if you don’t want to join our forum, you can always ‘lurk’, and gain support by reading the other members personal evolution’s.

I hope you will take me up on my offer for free help and support, as you learn how to get over a break up, and gain control of your life again.

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to cope with break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the URL of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the breakup survival plan, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise.

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Until next time,

S. Williams

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